When the anger we see is actually anxiety

Learn to identify anxiety and lend
a helping hand

Being misunderstood can lead to insecurities and frustrations which may translate to a display of anger. 

How do we spot anxiety in an angry person?

Physical Responses 

- Crying
- Protesting
- Heavy Breathing
- Wide-open eyes
- Trying to escape
- Hitting out

Signs of Disengagement 

- Flat, still or frozen facial features
- Lack of interest
- Monotone / flat tone
- Lack of exploration
- Slow / decreased body movement

What to do?

- Give cues to the angry person that he / she is physically and emotionally safe
- Understand this as a stress response as what we are asking may exceed his / her ability to carry out
- Be flexible in changing plans and prioritise warmth, engagement, and understanding